Therapy vs. Coaching: Why Coaching Wins

Shawn Hesmatpour

Published on: 05/05/2026

One thing I want to write about for you this morning is the difference between therapy and the type of work I do. I’ve been asked this by so many guys who’ve hopped on consultation calls with me over the years.

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Getting it Down to the Root: Why You Look Away Instead of Walking Over

Shawn Hesmatpour

Published on: 09/04/2026

Today, I want to talk to you about something that isn’t discussed enough when it comes to interacting with women you find attractive. This isn’t about just working on your self-confidence. This is specifically about resolving the problem you have...

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A Client Case Study: How Noah Reclaimed His Confidence (And How You Can Too)

Shawn Hesmatpour

Published on: 08/03/2025

Noah had tried everything. He had listened to advice, followed all the “right” steps, and yet nothing was working. He still felt stuck. Uncertain. Hesitant to put himself out there. That changed when he joined my coaching program. Because this...

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The Confidence Myth

Shawn Hesmatpour

Published on: 09/12/2024

You’ve been told a lie. Most people think confidence is something you earn by achieving big milestones. Landing the promotion, making a lot of money, impressing others in social situations. You know, hitting the big time in something. A "completio...

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